“Your destiny is fated”- There are a lot of people who actually read your Bazi reading, your destiny and tell you this particular statement: your fate cannot be changed. Well, I am sorry to say that whatever those people are saying is that they are under two conditions: whatever they learn, they do not know how to do it, or basically, they do not know how to change a person’s destiny.
The birth chart of a person is basically quite standard. No matter what time you are born or which date you are born, it is based on the two-hour chart and you will be plotted. It will be based on very general information to tell you what is going to happen to you, what your basic character is, etc. But at the end of the day, this is just a chart. No matter how you actually plot the chart within the two hours, the chart will still be the same. Because of that, there is also something you have to consider: where do you live, in which country do you live, which industry are you going to focus on in terms of career or even business, etc. All these will play a part in your so-called destiny. The people you mix with are positive or negative. They are rich or poor. All these decisions will actually change your destiny.
And what is your reaction to certain events or decisions that you want to make? When there is something that happens, how are you going to react? If there is a COVID situation, in that particular year and for the next three to five years, they will still be COVID. I couldn’t sit in the office or sit at home and do nothing. I am going to take this opportunity to do something better. You see, how you react will actually change the course of destiny in terms of how you amplify, whether you are making money or not making money, or whether you have a good career or a bad career. So, always remember, a birth chart is only a birth chart. Your life, your decision-making, what you do, will change what is going to happen next. Always remember that a chart is still a chart.
Under Qi Men Dun Jia, we are able to see your problems, your potential, and sometimes, if we want to, we can always advise you on what to do to make your life even better, because everyone’s life is not perfect. No matter what you have in your chart, there will be some great ones. They are not the ones that are not so great. There will be a contrast between the good and the bad. Some may be very good in terms of their outlook (they can be very pretty, they can be very handsome), but at the end of the day, their life or their health may not be so fantastic, or maybe they can be rich, but anyway, their relationship may not be so fantastic. So, there’s always a big contrast in life. It is a very fair world out there. So, the question is: what is the best and what is not the best? From there, how do we adjust it in such a way that we know what the things that we can do to make our life even better?
Having said that, I want to emphasize that a Bazi chart is fixed, but your destiny is not fixed. You can amplify it to become better. The question is: are you willing to pay the price? Are you going to make the sacrifice and make the effort to make your life better? I think that is more important because if you are willing to make an effort, you are going to pay the price to get what you want. A chart is still a chart. Whatever is printed in the birth chart is not able to control you. Always remember that you control your life, you control your destiny, and you control whether you are going to live happily or miserably. Thank you very much.